What you are about to read is a true life story. The story is not actually about me,  it's about a friend.. Don't go thinking I do post every issues of my friends on social media.. Hell No!!!!!.... I will never do that.   I'm doing this after taking permission from her to share this story.
I'm sharing this story because I believe some of you might be in this awkward situation she once fell into.



Narration.....

She had been in a relationship with Collins since 2014... Though she had known Collins long before they  started to date.... But back then, She had no feelings for him, she detested him so much.... But he kept coming to her for a relationship.... She turned him down severally... Sometime she would lie to him that she was with her boyfriend and that he should stop calling her... But Collins did not give up....
When she rounded off her NCE program in 2014, she wasn't in any relationship.... Luckily, Collins came again to ask for a relationship... This time, she accepted him... Not because she loved him but she just wanted to be with someone.... She planned to break up with him whenever she find someone she love..... But it became a different story....

........... She Speaks'...............................................

Rotimi,  this relationship has tied me down, I'm so confused right now. It's like I'm being tied to be killed.. I can't take it anymore.......

Not quite long we started the relationship, Collins took me to his family... I was known by everyone... They all became my friend on all social media..... I got into a tight corner.... Getting someone I would love and breaking up with Collins keep taking long than I expected.... It wasn't working like I planned.... The whole family loved me,  they were wonderful people.  They saw me as a light  who could shine bright good things into  their son's path..  I really do loved his family. I loved the way I was being treated, one wouldn't want any other thing than that ☺ .. But I can't see myself loving Collins... I tried all I could to give him a chance to be loved but it isn't working for me.  Financially, he is not OK... I can't even remember the last time he gave me 50naira...ooopsssss.. Yet I am also not from a wealthy home... I am still a student. And I will need money for 'this and that'... I hope you understand me... I am a flashy looking lady, complexion wise, easily attracted to men... Though I find it difficult to give in to men because I feel they are just after my body... But I trust Collins 100% that he truly loves me....
I don't love Collins enough to marry him... He is actually not my type of guy....

.......NARRATOR...................................... ..............

'HOPE YOU ARE NOT BORED WITH THIS STORY'..... COME TO THINK OF IT,  THIS IS ACTUALLY HOW MANY LADIES THINK.  Thought of hooking up with their Mr perfect. Refusing to see the gold that lies in front of them just because the gold seems small and it's not shining too bright. Hmmmm... *sign* Are you a type of lady that feel a guy must meet your criterials before you can accept him?  Are you a type of lady who goes into a relationship for no serious reasons? Be truthful to yourself...

......She speaks.......................................................

Apart from Collins, I have over ten(10)suitors. I am very close to about four of them(suitors). Among the four suitors that I am close to, there is one I like, his name is Tony..... At first when I meet Tony, we were just attracted to each other, though most of the moves came from me because I really liked him.........
I gave all my attention to Tony so that I can let go Collins. But Tony was a busy type, he gave me less attention... He behaves like he doesn't care. No regular calls or texts..  He only calls whenever he felt like he needed me. I was already losing hope on Tony but he called me one night to ask if I really wanted a strong relationship with him... ☺ What do you expect me to say,  I really loved him. So With joy in my heart, I told him Yes... Since that night, Tony and I have become lovers bird and the bond of love between us is so strong..........
My attitude towards Collins has totally changed since I meet Tony.... I am now so desperate to break up with him... I stopped calling him, I don't get close to him anymore, I can't even stand him kissing me,  it feels like shit.gosh!!!!!!!! my attitude towards him became worse each day..... I didn't give a damn about him anymore.. I just wanted to frustrate his life so that he would go But Collins still won't go 😢...
He only complained about my attitude..... But I couldn't come out straight because I don't know what he would do to himself.. And I am also afraid of what his family members will think of me if I should breakup with him.... They will say it's because he doesn't have money... The little likeness I have for him has even now turn to pity...........😢
I am totally confuse........... What should I do? 😢

........Narrator!!!!!!!

What would you do if you were in this situation?

........Narrator's Response.......

When you know deep down within you that you dont love collins to settle down with him, you should  not have allowed him to introduce you to His people, do you know what it means when a guy take you to his family? Well,  you have to face it. And How well can you say of Tony that he will settle down with you? Girl i will advice you  to pray about it and let God lead you. God's will for our lives can not be our will. Remember money is not every thing. But Being with right person make money useful and meaningful. God has given us the right to make choice but make your choice in God. Deut. 30:15,19.

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